French object pronouns: le, la, lui, leur (direct and indirect)

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English uses the same pronoun whether the object is direct or indirect: "I see him", "I talk to him", "I give him the book". French does not. In French, the choice between le, la, les and lui, leur depends on whether the verb takes à or not. And that construction does not always match the English one, which is where most mistakes come from.
What is the difference between a COD and a COI?
- The COD (complément d'objet direct, direct object) has no preposition: Je regarde le film. (I am watching the film.)
- The COI (complément d'objet indirect, indirect object) is introduced by a preposition, almost always à: Je parle à mon frère. (I am talking to my brother.)
| Person | COD (direct) | COI (indirect) |
|---|---|---|
| I | me (m') | me (m') |
| you (informal) | te (t') | te (t') |
| he / she | le / la (l') | lui |
| we | nous | nous |
| you (plural or formal) | vous | vous |
| they | les | leur |
Only the third-person forms change: le, la, les for the direct object and lui, leur for the indirect object.
When do you use le, la, les?
With verbs that take no preposition in French:
- Tu connais Pierre ? — Oui, je le connais. (Yes, I know him.)
- Tu as vu la série ? — Oui, je l'ai vue. (Yes, I have seen it.)
- Tu invites tes amis ? — Oui, je les invite. (Yes, I am inviting them.)
When do you use lui, leur?
With verbs that take à + person: parler à, téléphoner à, écrire à, répondre à, demander à, donner à, dire à, sourire à, plaire à.
- Tu as parlé à ta mère ? — Oui, je lui ai parlé. (Yes, I talked to her.)
- Tu écris à tes clients ? — Oui, je leur écris. (Yes, I am writing to them.)
Lui is used for both masculine and feminine: je lui parle can mean "I talk to him" or "I talk to her".
The verbs that trip up English speakers
Some verbs do not have the same construction in the two languages:
| In French | Pronoun | Compared with English |
|---|---|---|
| écouter quelqu'un | je l'écoute | listen to someone (no à in French) |
| attendre quelqu'un | je l'attends | wait for someone (no preposition in French) |
| chercher quelqu'un | je le cherche | look for someone (no preposition in French) |
| téléphoner à quelqu'un | je lui téléphone | phone someone (à in French) |
| répondre à quelqu'un | je lui réponds | answer someone (à in French) |
| demander à quelqu'un | je lui demande | ask someone (à in French) |
| obéir à quelqu'un | je lui obéis | obey someone (à in French) |
The English preposition is not a reliable guide: "listen to", "wait for" and "look for" take a direct object in French (le, la), while "phone", "answer" and "ask" take à and therefore lui.
Where do the pronouns go?
- Before the conjugated verb: Je le vois. (I see him.) Je lui parle. (I talk to him / her.)
- Before the auxiliary in compound tenses: Je l'ai vu. (I saw him.) Je lui ai répondu. (I answered him / her.)
- Before the infinitive: Je vais le voir. (I am going to see him.) Je veux lui parler. (I want to talk to him / her.)
- After the verb in the affirmative imperative: Regarde-le ! Parle-lui ! (and me becomes moi: Aide-moi !).
Does the past participle agree?
With avoir, the past participle agrees with the direct object if it comes before the verb: La série ? Je l'ai vue. Les photos ? Je les ai prises. There is no agreement with an indirect object: Je lui ai parlé. In speech you can hardly hear it, but in writing and in the DELF it counts.
Typical mistakes English speakers make
- ✗ Je lui écoute (from "I listen to him") → ✓ Je l'écoute.
- ✗ J'attends pour lui (from "I am waiting for him") → ✓ Je l'attends.
- ✗ Je le téléphone → ✓ Je lui téléphone.
- ✗ Je le dis la vérité (from "I tell him the truth") → ✓ Je lui dis la vérité.
- ✗ Je lui le donne → ✓ Je le lui donne. With two pronouns, le / la / les come before lui / leur.
To check how a verb is constructed, look it up in Le Robert: it shows whether it takes quelqu'un or à quelqu'un. And remember that for places and things introduced by à or de, you use the pronouns y and en.
Frequently asked questions
Is lui masculine or feminine?
Both. Je lui parle can refer to a man or a woman. Only the context makes it clear.
Is it "je l'écoute" or "je lui écoute"?
Je l'écoute, because French says écouter quelqu'un, with no preposition, even though English says "listen to".
What order do two pronouns go in?
Me, te, nous, vous come first; then le, la, les; then lui, leur; and finally y and en: Il me le donne. Je le lui donne. Je leur en parle.
Why is it "parle-lui" but "ne lui parle pas"?
In the affirmative imperative the pronoun goes after the verb with a hyphen; in the negative imperative it goes back to its usual place, before the verb.


